Changing your name is a big deal. Your identity and history are tied to your name, so the switch can be a monumental decision. Unfortunately, governments know this, too — so the process of legally changing your name often involves red tape, loads of paperwork, and high fees.
Name change laws vary from one U.S. state to the next, so navigating that maze of rules, forms, and hearings can be overwhelming. While a legal name change can be a bureaucratic nightmare, it's necessary for people who wish to make their new names official.
Steven A. Friday, a transgender medical-legal partnership attorney at the Los Angeles law firm Bet Tzedek, has worked directly on dozens of name change petitions. "The State of California does recognize a common law right for most people to change their name. The petition process with the Court is considered the state's record of that change," he says via email. "On the other hand, government entities and other organizations create their own requirements for correcting a name on their respective records. . Similar requirements apply for passports and Social Security accounts. Thus, in practice, the common law change is not sufficient for most people's needs, such as corrected identity documents."
Reasons to Change Your Name
There are a variety of reasons why you may want to legally change your name (or your children's names), such as:
Some people decide to change their names for unconventional reasons, too, like they want the same name as their favorite superhero. Generally, you're allowed to choose an unusual name for an atypical reason. But some names are off limits in certain states, like names that are vulgar or offensive, ones that may cause harm or public confusion, and ones that have excessive or numerical characters.
The Legal Name Change Process
Because individual states handle name changes, it is impossible to provide a one-size-fits-all guide to the process. Though you'd need to refer to the instructions supplied by your local court or consult with an attorney to learn the rules specific to your situation, there are guidelines that are common across the U.S.
Legal name changes can be divided into two basic categories: those that require you to file a petition with a local court and those that don't. We'll start with the latter, since those can demand less up-front legwork. These kinds of name changes occur within other legal proceedings, such as marriage, divorce, and naturalization.
When a Petition Is Not Required
When a Petition Is Required
In some name change cases, wading through the court system is necessary. If you want to change your first name on a whim, to align with your gender identity, or for other purposes unrelated to separate legal processes, then you'll likely have to petition the court. You can find a lawyer to help you with your case; sign up for a paid service to help with information and document gathering; or take the DIY route. Either way, petitioning to change your name may require you to take the following steps:
Since name change petitions are different depending on the applicant and state where they are filed, there are many exceptions and caveats to these rules. Here are a few:
This entire process can take months, and it will likely cause some headaches along the way. On top of how time consuming and costly it can be, legally changing your name can be an emotional rollercoaster.
"Having to have a judge 'grant' your request to change your name can feel uncomfortable and, for trans and nonbinary folks particularly, disaffirming. Though receiving the final decree can be quite affirming!" says Friday. Plus, policy and personal opinions can affect the experience that a person has when taking their new name. "While over the past few years, California's laws have progressively changed to remove judicial discretion and increase privacy, new laws and procedures sometimes take time to reach all of the judges and court personnel."
Transgender woman Stacy Lynn Kilpatrick of Denver waits at the courthouse for the final paperwork that will legally change her name, 2009.
Joe Amon/The Denver Post/Getty ImagesAfter Your Name Change
You're breathing a sigh of relief now that you've done the arduous work of legally changing your name — but you aren't off the hook yet! Whether or not you had to petition the courts for your name change, you still have to trudge through the work of updating your name with a slew of agencies and companies. It's often beneficial to get a new Social Security card, driver's license, and passport first, since these documents can be used for verification of your new name when contacting other institutions. Here are some of the other organizations that you'll need to notify of your new moniker once it's official:
"For many locales, there are resources including self-help guides, clinics, or legal services [and] organizations that can give guidance or direct assistance with completing name changes," says Friday. "In some places, the courts will provide some basic information. While the process can be intimidating, it may be worth it to search for some sort of assistance rather than avoiding it all together."
Now That's InterestingMany countries have naming laws that restrict what parents can legally name their children. In Iceland, the Personal Names Committee maintains a list of approved Icelandic given names; any other names must be submitted for approval. Names must follow Icelandic grammar rules and have cultural precedence, and they cannot "cause the bearer embarrassment."
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